Dating as a hetero, feminist woman can be all but easy.
We're aware of how rampant misogyny is, and how toxic masculinity can enforce it, so looking for a partner who respects (all) women, doesn't place gender roles on you, and who doesn't have a lot to unpack when it comes to the way society views women can be tiresome, to say the least.
But for those interested in checking out the dating pool, asking questions can be an easy way to feel someone out, which is sort of the point of first dates anyway. Here's how to ask the real, direct questions in any casual setting, because we can all stand to save time on dating prospects.
Besides, it's better to find out he's a sexist a**hole now than it is after you've slept with him three times.