It’s one of those kinds of things that’s simple and complicated at the same time. Most of us have heard that there’s no way we can love someone right or set the standard for the kind of love that we should get in return if we don’t love ourselves first.
How many of us really believe that, though? How many of us are confident that, beyond the shadow of a doubt, we make sure to put ourselves first, meet our own needs and know how to fall in love with the right man because we fell in love with ourselves long before he ever arrived?
If you sit and think back on some of your hardest relationships, while it might be hard to admit, the common denominator was you. Not only that but, if you loved yourself as much as you were deserving of, there’s a significant chance that you wouldn’t have chosen the men that you did.
Ouch. Sometimes the truth really does hurt. The silver lining is that there’s no time like the present to make a change.
If you really want to have a happy and healthy relationship with another individual, it is an absolute must that you fall in love with you—FIRST.
This is how you (start to) do it.